Wednesday, August 26, 2015

THE CONCEPT OF OLD AGE HOMES (India)

PLOT I- A son is leaving his dad in an old age home (Movie: Lage Raho Munna bhai)
PLOT II- A father trying hard and breaking que just to secure a bed for his toddler son in a place meant for homeless people (Movie: The Pursuit Of Happyness)

I used to wonder how can a society decide (or dictate) the elders not to be in the society or to have a different society when the fact is that elders has always been the backbone of society. And the more important question for me was how can government make a place for old aged people? I mean its like encouraging the so called children to send the parents in old age home? Just like we have bars to drink and enjoy in a particular atmosphere how can one decide that now parents are aged so they don't belong in homes (which they built)? I had many questions like this until I got the privilege to visit one of the old age home recently (thanks to my friends). After talking the authorities and people living there, now I have no questions at all. But I do have answers, many answers. I realized a truth:


Actually there was no place titled 'old age home' at the first place. This place was actually meant for the homeless people. But as homeless people are so much addicted or trained to begging that they don't prefer to live there or they have no awareness that there is such scheme for them. But as per the information given, they do have the awareness but don't they avail it. So somehow this place turned into the place for old aged people and there are people of all the religion living under one roof, sharing meals, laughter, tears; in short LIFE.

I wanted to  write about the people living there too but I have realized that few feelings are worth to  be felt then to be jotted down.

Sunday, June 28, 2015

ISLAM IS INTRODUCED TO US IN A TWISTED WAY

ISLAM IS INTRODUCED TO US IN A TWISTED WAY
How do we came to know about Islam? Or, more relevant question would be ‘how I came to know Islam?’ A non-muslim will say through some friends, or media, or Shahrukh or Amir or whichever Khan you like or one of my teacher was a Muslim and so on. So basically it’s from a ‘third person’. But a Muslim will say: well, I am born as a Muslim. Fair enough. But my question was not about your birth but about HOW YOU came to know Islam? Now the answer is through my parents or family. That’s the basic answer. And how the parents came to know about Islam? Through their parents unless and until they are reverts. So we know Islam through our parents, our parents knows Islam through theirs and the chain goes on AND the non-Muslims having direct interactions with us, learn about Islam through us.
Now my first point, if you ask any Muslim about what Islam says, they will answer it’s all in ‘Al-Qur’an and authorized hadiths’. Few people will say only ‘Al-Qur’an’. My second point, as I said, Muslims know Islam from parents. That’s the initiation level. Now if you ask any muslim in India, or in a world for that matter, about their religion, mass majority will say ‘Islam’ but if you push by saying ‘what type of muslim’, now here you will get all the TWISTED answers: Sunni, Shia, Wahhabi, Ahmadi, Salafi, Baii, Tableeg, Ahal-e-hadith, Ahal-e-Quran and what not. And there are scholars from all of these sects shouting and claiming that their sect is superior and pious than others and they are the true Muslims. Now I will again go back to my first point- Qur’an and Hadith. It’s in Qur’an not to get divided and also quoted in hadith that no one has the superiority over another one. So all the people who are differentiating among the Muslims, being a Muslim, are going against the words of the greatest supreme power of the universe, Allah. People come up with lame examples that first they started naming themselves so we also named our group just to differentiate us from them; forgetting the fact that Allah azzwajal has not permitted us to differentiate. And the seed of these sects are so deeply and passionately sown that people are not even ready to listen. If you ask these question to the scholars (not all scholars believe in sects but majority of them do) then they give the threat that it’s not permissible in Islam to ask question! Silly and insane reply of them. When Allah (swt) has not stopped us to ask questions then how come these mullahs are threating us for asking the questions. And moreover, it’s their duty to answer our questions otherwise what is the use of their studies? It’s the second part where Islam gets twisted. First by teaching us about sects instead of Islam and second by threating us when we have questions.
Third point is especially for the non-Muslims, specifically for the Hindus (or Sanatan dharma followers). There are several question like Muslims don’t do surya namaskar, muslims don’t sing Vande Mataram so how can they call themselves patriotic? The answer is simple: because Islam doesn’t allow to betray anyone. Coming to the point why NO-surya namaskar & Vande Matarm. People need to understand that Islam is based on monotheism. Which means to worship one and only one God. That’s it. Muslims even don’t worship Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him). Although it’s in Islam to respect and to be thankful for the blessings of Allah (swt) like rivers, seas, mountains, stars, parents, off springs, trees, elders, young ones, etc. But one need to understand that Muslims don’t worship these things, they cannot... So just because Muslims don’t pray to Sun and Motherland it doesn’t mean they are not patriotic. Muslims can be patriotic and they are patriotic because they have to. They cannot betray anyone (though many Muslims do but again, this act is not Islamic). And in ‘anyone’ includes everyone. It’s a ‘Hindu way’ to worship motherland and sun but it’s not Islamic. A muslim paying tax, taking care of his neighbors, not backbiting, not spreading rumors, feeding the hungry, taking care if poor, ills and orphans, giving proper education to the children (to both: boy and girl), a muslim not harming anyone.. That’s Islamic law (or Sharia) and that’s how Muslim should be. That’s how Islam teaches Muslims to live.
The fourth point is culture.
Islam’s origin is Saudi Arabia. No doubt. And here is the fourth twist! People mindset is that Arab culture is Islam which is entirely wrong. Even if all the Arabic speaking countries or people or Muslim dominated lands call themselves ‘Islamic country’, they are not Islamic. They are just having ‘Muslims as a majority or as a whole population’ but they are not Islamic unless they follow the Islamic laws (many of which I have stated above). Now one thing I love to add here is that many laws which are termed as ‘Islamic’ but in actual they are not like- not letting the ladies to drive (in Iran), not giving freedom of speech (like in Saudi Arabia), dictatorship (like ISIS is having) etc. In addition, as I said in the very beginning that Islam has Arabic as its language so people should give a thought about the very commonly used Arabic words. Many times, say out of 10, 8 times, because of media or arrogance or lack of understanding, people take these Arabic words in a wrong way. Few are as follows:
Kaafir = the one who don’t believe in Allah. There is nothing offensive in being called a ‘kaafir’. Just like we have the word ‘atheist’ in English, its ‘kaafir’ in Arabic. But here is one catch: Atheist means not to believe in ANY GOD but Kaafir means not to believe in Allah. So if somebody is atheist that means that person is in the category of ‘kuffars’ or ‘kaafir’ but if somebody is Kaafir then either the person is an atheist or that person believes in some other religion. Now what if someone believes in Allah and associates ‘others’ with him? There are two terms: Muna’fik (one who pretends to believe in Allah but in reality is not) and Mushrik (One who associates others with Allah as a God)
Jihad = everyone love this word. Don’t they? wink emoticon Jihad simply means ‘to struggle for the right’. Like, a child walks several kilometers for school, or parents working day and night for the bright future of their children, soldiers protecting the country, an individual trying hard to overcome the failures etc. This is what Jihad is. Many people associates jihad with the acts of terrorists group which is wrong. Jihad is not about killing in the name of Allah but it’s about overcoming the difficulties while doing good.
To conclude I will just say one line- If you want to know Islam, read Qur’an. Its available in almost every language as a translated form. Qur’an is unchanged.
Thanks for giving the time. If any doubt, feel free to ask.

Sunday, February 10, 2013

was out of the  screen for a long time so i am here just inform- THE LAZY BUM IS BACK! ;-)

Monday, January 31, 2011

THE PLAN

Some things are beyond planning.
And life doesn’t always turn out as planned.
You don’t plan for a broken heart.
You don’t plan for an autistic child.
You don’t plan for spinsterhood.
You don’t plan for a lump in your breast.

You plan to be young forever.
You plan to climb the corporate ladder.
You plan to be rich and powerful.
You plan to be acclaimed and successful.
You plan to conquer the universe.
You plan to fall in love - and be loved forever.

You don’t plan to be sad.
You don’t plan to be hurt.
You don’t plan to be broke.
You don’t plan to be betrayed.
You don’t plan to be alone in this world.
You plan to be happy.
You don’t plan to be shattered .

Sometimes if you work hard enough, you can get what you want. But MOST times, what you want and what you get are two different things.

We, mortals, plan. But so does Allah (subhan wa ta'aala) in the heavens. Sometimes, it is difficult to understand Allah’s plans especially when His plans are not in consonance with ours .

Often, when He sends us crisis, we turn to Him in anger. True, we cannot choose what Allah wishes us to carry, but we can carry it with courage knowing that He will never abandon us nor send something we cannot cope with .

Sometimes, Allah breaks our spirit to save our soul.
Sometimes, He breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, He allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, Allah sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, He allows illness so we can take better care of ourselves.
And sometimes, Allah takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything He gave us

Make plans, but understand that we live by Allah’s grace.

Although they plan, Allah also plans. And Allah is the Best of Planners.
[Holy Qur'an 8:30]

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

‎"is kadarr ho gayi ehamiyatt hamari uski zindagi me.. jaise kaagazo me bandd gulab ho,
kambakht ko pheka bhi nahin jata, rakha bhi nahin jata,"

-Farhan

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

That frustration!

It was just 17th day on job and I was like what I am doing here? Is this the place I wanted to be? I was 100% confused and frustrated....

I am just sharing this so that you can know (although you know) that change is tough!!

Saturday, October 2, 2010

A DREAM OF A BLIND


just had a thought what blind men do? i mean.. we can see so its obvious that we have a better life or we can have better life.. but what about those guys who are just not able to see. When there is power fault at night we go mad just because we can not see anything so just think what about those fellows... i am not saying they dont have vision.. no.. not at all.. they have but what i am saying is just try to understand that they are dreaming.. and all they dream is just sounds!! No pictures. They dont know how the apple looks, they dont the difference between colors, they dont know how a Sedan looks... I just urge you all.. who are reading this page... just go to any blind person... you can find them if you want to... just have a beautiful friendship with that person.. try to feel the world in their way.. InshaAllah you will have better life.